Woop Woop its time for those wedding posts again....
As my sister is in town this week has actually been full of some wedding planning.
So I'm totally into Bridesmaids stuff this week....
I thought I would share my little knowledge about choosing bridesmaid items.
{Warning: This is a little info heavy haha}
Dresses:
There are SO many different dresses to choose from for your bridesmaids.
If you want to keep them cheaper than usual, you can totally pick a dress you like from a store like forever 21, H&M, wet seal, charlotte russe and just get your girls to get them as soon as you choose it to risk it being unavailable.
I've totally seen this done at weddings and it still looks really cute.
I'm sure your girls will thank you for the cheaper dress too.
If you are looking for something from a bridal store, for that more formal look.
Then personally I think both David's Bridal & Dessy carry most styles in a TON of colors.
David's Bridal as you probably know are a chain and you can look up the location, Dessy are a brand but they have store locators so you can find a store which carry them. Dessy tends to run a little more expensive (not by much though) but has more variety than just David's Bridal alone.
So some things to take into consideration about these dresses for your girls:
- All of them probably come in different shapes & sizes, so either pick a dress which will look great on everyone or have some dresses like the ones above which can be altered to a style that suits each one. As much as they probably won't complain about what you make them wear, no-one wants to wear an unflattering dress while supporting you. {You can even make
life easier for yourself and just pick a color and tell them to pick
whatever dress they want in that color}
- Season. If you are getting married in the summer and its humid, long floor length gowns might not work for you guys.
- Keep in mind the length for taller girls. I always have a nightmare with this. Tea-length on an average height girl falls a few inches above the knee. Regardless of what stores will tell you, bigger sizes don't compensate well....tea-length on a tall girl will probably be uncomfortably short. Just saying =)
- Think about modesty. Everyone has different standards, but if you know of a friend who's standards are higher than yours....take that into consideration perhaps. You don't want to upset her and put her in a difficult situation. It is your wedding day but these are your girls, they will still be here after 'your day'. {I have been the bride before also...I know how difficult it is to please everyone...but its worth trying}
- Colors....if you havn't chosen your wedding colors...this is the place to start =)
- Make sure you give your girls enough time to order the items they will need. Tell them if they need a specific dress, shoes, jewelry and send them the links to buy it all.
{Just some thoughts to consider}
Shoes:
A lot of the stores above will dye shoes for you to match the dresses. Or even dye them to your complimentary wedding color. For instance if you choose grey & red, you can have the dresses in red and then the shoes in grey (or the other way....you get the idea).
These are from dessy and come in pretty much any color you can think of:
Dessy also have these flip flops (perfect for summer weddings!) available in again a ton of colors. The base is the same color on them all and then they outside is dyed to the color you want:
David's Bridal also do a whole collection of dyeable wedding shoes.....
again to dye to any color.
And if you still don't have enough selection from those sources....payless shoes totally have a dyeable bridal footwear section too.
Again...make sure you order them early enough. I think a few of these can take 3 months to dye and have them shipped, they also should all be dyed together so that the color is the same for them all.
Or you can get shoes from a store like target and again just make sure you tell your girls to order them ASAP so everyone gets them before they cycle out.
Jewellery/Accessories:
Again this probably depends on your style and color.
Personally I think your best idea for this, if you want all the girls to match, is to buy them the jewellery as favors (always nice to say thankyou).
They get to keep the jewellery and you know everyone has exactly what they need on the day.
Probably safer this way, just in case Kelly leaves hers back in Montana and realises when she gets to your wedding. (totally fictional btw haha)
If you like you can find matching jewellery in stores like Claires, Forever 21, any which carry accessories =)
Or you can find jewellery here:
And there is always Etsy.
I think this might be my personal favorite, you will get original items this way and be supporting someone's small business.
I didn't know about it while I was planning =)
That's probably enough from me today.
Have an awesome time with your girls!
Much Love,
L
